Are you married or in a committed relationship? If you are, who are accepting advice from? Are you discussing your relationship with your single friends allowing their views and opinions to shape your decision making concerning your love life? If you love your spouse or significant other please stop before you lose them. How can they advise you on something they don’t have or haven’t experienced? “If you hang with nine broke friends you’re bound to be the tenth one.” Don’t bankrupt your love by accepting the counsel of the impoverished loveless.