Why do we value what strangers think of us more than we value what our loved one thinks? Your husband can love you just the way you are and tell you so daily but if a catty woman at work makes a rude comment about your appearance it will cause you to question your beauty. Consider the source, listen to those who love you. Loved ones words hold more merit and weight than that of an acquaintance trying to share their pain. Listen to your love not your haters.